If you're in a situation where:

• You have to beg to get the slightest of things done
• Your contribution is undervalued
• Efforts around you go into things of arguably less importance/urgency than your work
• The default answer to your any suggestion is no
• You feel like you're doing all the work
• When you go the extra mile to reach out to the others, they act as normal

Then get out of that situation.

It's a case of change your circumstances or change your circumstances. Maybe you can make things better, or maybe making things better means giving up.

On balance, a recent decision I made to stop doing a project has proved to be the perfect outcome for me.